Gay
Marriage is a matter of respect and human rights because of the way it is received
among the general public. Marianne Mollmann takes a different angle of gay
rights and marriage: the kids. Homosexual couples want to have a family that
consists of children as well, they go to adopt or find surrogates to have
children for them since they can’t go the traditional route. When gays are
treated differently and not allowed a right to marry, there’s actually a bit
more than that they lose as a side effect. When a normal heterosexual couple
has kids they get benefits from their jobs, maternity/paternity leave for
example, actually make a difference. A gay couple would have to use their
vacation days or some other substitute to be able to get that free time with
their children also, the fact that a lot of their children is adopted puts
added difficulty to the couple compared to the normal heterosexual couple. While
something like this seems rather small and trivial, the maternity leave along
with other benefits that a normal couple would have just add up and will become
a big disadvantage in one way or another.
Mollmann
also talks about the human rights of gays, at the end of the day they are the
same as any other human being. Gays have been the target for hate crimes for
several several years, that’s not new. In my mind, that’s the equivalent of
shooting a African American just because of skin color. People forget that gays
are just humans and deserve the same respect and rights as anyone else. Why is
it so easy for them to do that?
For
too many people it is only a short leap from seeing homosexuality as offensive
to justifying physical harm.
Works Cited
Mollmann, Marianne. "Gay Marriage Is a Human Rights Issue." Gay Marriage. Ed. Debra A. Miller. Detroit: Greenhaven Press, 2012. At Issue. Rpt. from "Gay Marriage: The Issue Is Respect." Huffington Post. 2011. Gale Opposing Viewpoints In Context. Web. 23 Jan. 2013.
I too think this is a very important topic to discuss. And you are right to point out the loss of benefits to gay couples. How about personalizing the post a bit (or writing a new post) that highlights the actual state laws of Virginia for gay couples? In some places domestic partnerships can allow for these benefits, but do we have them here? Why/why not? And what has the state done to help or hinder these rights?
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love that you are doing your topic on gay rights. I too feel like my girlfriend and I should have the same rights as everyone else. Its a new generation so its time for a change. :)
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